Well, it is quite obvious that I do not like changes. As heard from the song Stay the Same by Joey Mcintyre: "And I hope you always stay the same.....". Lol. Anyway, I'm not too sure why, but I do agree with the song as to not want to see people change nor see myself change too much.
A few examples of change which I may not like:
1) Change of fashion
2) Change of music style
3) Change of favourites (food & beverages)
4) Change in people.
Why is it that I can't accept the various change in times and move on with the flow? Why do I not like the music being played on radio? Why do I not want to change the food that I order in a particular shop? Why do I not want to see the person I like change?
Is it because they are already fine the way they are? Is it because I like the way it is soo much that when it changes, I may not like it? "But everybody's changing and I don't feel right" as heard from Keane in Everybody's Changing. We all know everyone changes over time. Perhaps its the fear of the unknown then. The fear that the things we like may change to be bad or change into something we can't accept.
Oh well I think I'm thinking too much, but then again, if there's nothing in my mind, then I'll be a mindless automaton :). Anyway I apologise if this post makes little to no sense. It actually kinda feels like I'm talking to myself when I'm writing this. Haha!
Anyway, in conclusion I think all I can do is pray that God will perform his will and help me to accept the reality that some things needs changing. For example, sins. We all should change ourselves to not continue sinning but instead strive to be christlike and walk in the light. I just have to have faith that everything is in his hands and whatever change in things are for the betterment of me. And I pray also that I will learn to accept the various changes in life, myself as well as others especially the people I care about.
2 comments:
1st and foremost i think a subject like this is great for a blog. Makes others think as well.
CHANGE....something many of us have trouble with. But i feel its not change that bothers us. Its fear..the fear of embracing change. As u said things can change for the better or for the worst. Whatever it maybe. However we cant stay like that forever. The very nature of life is progression, we all have to move on. However as Christians we have a great assurance that God has everything in his hands and we can have the confidence the face change and even be excited about it.
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